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There Are Only
TWO Kinds Of
Ones Who COMMIT
to their recovery...
The Ones Who Don't
(You probably don't need me to tell you
who will enjoy a brighter future.)
The fact that you've come to this site means
you're looking for answers.
You’ve been stuck in a miserable relationship and you’re feeling
so lost and confused
you think it might be your fault…
You’re hoping for someone who can show you the way to get
over your misery and your desperation...
You're wanting to understand why would someone you love treat
you that badly
You're wondering how you ever let someone treat you that
And you're asking yourself:
"How do I get back to me?"
"How do I get my strength back?"
"How do I get my self-worth back?"
"How do I start over and
build a GREAT LIFE for myself?"
If this is you, then the “The Woman You Want To Be”
e-book may be just
what you need to STOP feeling like a victim and
START to create a life to love.
To: Any abused woman who is SERIOUS about moving
on to make better relationships and a better life
From: Annie Kaszina, January 2008
Do you have a partner who blames you for
everything, who always finds fault?
This book could change your life!
Have you tried to make your relationship work time and time again?
Are you tired of feeling bad about yourself, tired of struggling
with the misery of an abusive relationship?
If you’re willing to let go of worrying about what he thinks
and, instead, spend just 10
minutes a day focusing on your recovery, then you can
break free of all that pain and the
Would you be prepared to believe that you can rebuild your confidence
and create a far better future than you can even imagine right now?
how low you feel right now and no matter how impossible that might
seem, You CAN get over an abusive relationship and move on.
In fact, you can start right away.
If you don’t have time to read this now click here to print this letter and
read it as soon as you can, because it’s as if someone is offering
you the helping hand you need over the Internet…if you just click
away, it will be gone.
Has your relationship left you wondering: “Why me? What do I do wrong?”
Actually, it’s not about you doing things wrong in your
relationship. All you've ever done is to make excuses
for your partner.
So many of us blame ourselves for the longest time before we'll ever admit that the partner we
love is treating us badly. Sound familiar?
How long have you been
going through tears, fears and misery in the struggle to keep
your relationship alive? Have you been worried sick
about what the future holds?
this sounds like you, READ ON!
you sick and tired of walking on eggshells
Do you feel you’re not good enough?
Have you lost sight of the person you used to be?
Are you afraid of his
Are you afraid other people will judge you the way he does?
Have you lost your confidence?
Do you feel that you must be to blame for the problems in the
Are you worried that nobody else would ever want you?
Do you feel emotionally drained?
worry about making the same relationship mistakes again?
Do you have a problem believing everything that’s great about you?
Are you worried you might be turning your back on the best man
you’ll ever find?
Do you want to
be happy, at peace, full of self-belief and energy
Do you want to have relationships with
people who will show you care
Discover the simple
secrets that will help you start rebuilding your life right
In this easy to read, ground-breaking e-book, you’ll discover
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"How can you
say that, Annie? You don't even know me."
That's absolutely true, I don't know
you. But I do know a great deal about the kind
of abusive relationship you've been in. I know what's happened
to your confidence, I know the kind of things your abusive partner
does and says. I know how much you still care about what's
best in him and how dearly you would have loved to make the relationship to
I know because of my
own experiences and the experiences of the hundreds and hundreds of
women I have worked with.
I also know the fastest ways to
get you out of the despair and hopelessness and get back into
your life. And I want to share with you all the most effective
secrets and little known techniques for getting YOU
back in control of your life and your feelings that I've learned in my years of working
with abused women.
When I found your website I was amazed and
astonished at what I was reading. It was like you were
describing him! It was very frightening to read but also
reassured me that my intuitions were right and I had made the
right decision. I cannot express enough how grateful I am for
your website and e-book, "The Woman You Want To Be". (Vicky Hasemore)
A few weeks ago I purchased your
e-book and have
found it profound and immensely helpful. (Fiona V.)
Let me introduce myself. I’m Annie Kaszina. I’m the author of “The
Woman You Want To Be”. I’m a writer, Women’s Empowerment Coach and
I’ve also been through all the
the hurt and humiliation of an abusive relationship.
I spent twenty years making excuses for my husband’s abusive
behaviour, living a lie, telling myself: “He doesn’t mean it,
really. He’s got so much potential. He’s just had a hard time and needs me to be more loving and more understanding…”
you’ve said the same things?
It took me the longest time to admit to myself that the relationship would
never get any better. That it would just go on hurting me and
grinding me down. But the penny finally dropped.
That realisation was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Of course, that's not what I thought at the time. (I
thought that I was giving up on a Prince Among Men, someone uniquely
wonderful and loving...)
My husband told me I’d never be able to manage without him.
really wanted to prove him wrong. But I didn’t know where to turn
for the answers. I felt lost and confused. I was looking
for someone who’d been there, come through it, and built a great
What I needed was someone who could:
- understand the way I felt
- help me process the pain fast
- get my life back on track.
Only there wasn't anyone out there.
I spent the next few years studying everything I could find
about abusive relationships.
The discoveries I made amazed me
they transformed my life completely as I began to grasp the
secrets of recovery. I learned how to how to
heal FAST from an abusive
relationship. I learned how to reclaim my courage, confidence and self-esteem.
I found out all about the secret game plan all
abusive men share. I discovered the ways abusive men
control women and keep them hooked into relationships:
* the script
that ALL abusive men work from: the insults, criticism,
cruelty, and emotional blackmail they all use
successfully, time and time again.
* the trauma that all abused women suffer -although
they always think that they are the only one
* exactly what paralyses abused women: the
self-loathing, fear, loss of confidence, self-worth,
direction, energy and isolation that reduce them to a shadow
of their true self.
* the suffering of the children who witness what’s
going on, despite your attempts to hide it from them
* the long-term damage of abusive relationships that
most people, even the experts, don't know about
* why just getting out isn’t enough to guarantee healing
And I came to realize that this information is only the first step
on the road to recovery. Rebuilding your self-worth is the
key to healing.
Because I knew that I wasn’t alone, I wanted to make a
difference to other women’s lives. I knew many other women struggle
in isolation with the
pain of an abusive relationship, the world over. I wanted to do whatever I could
to shatter the isolation, ease the pain they've been through and
This e-book is the result.
I'm absolutely passionate about two
Maybe you know that your relationship is destroying you.
away – and staying away – can feel like the hardest thing you’ll
ever have to do.
Even if the hurt and the disappointment
are more than you feel you can bear right now, reading this book can
help you rebuild your confidence and your self-worth in less
time than you would think possible. It can restore
your faith in your right to a brighter future.
Annie, You have saved my life! .....Thank you with all my
heart...My thinking has changed....and I see a future that I
am building within me, my secret life.......I am able to keep
my mouth shut and not participate and allow myself a victim to
this abuse. To not fall into the traps of continuing to be an
emotional punching bag......for now.... I am having and
relishing a victorious relationship with myself and healing
within. I am gathering my strength to walk into my future.
Your generous and gracious tools have lighted my way! I am so
thankful to you... (Linda Cahill)
started reading Step 2 last week and already amazing things
have happened. After years of misery I discovered over the
weekend (at my 25th college reunion) that I am capable of
feeling good about myself . For the first time in my life, my
fear has been replaced with courage and I feel more confident
than ever. Ironically, during all of this I've caught a bad
cold and lost my voice. However, I look at this with open
eyes and realize I had to lose my voice completely in order to
find it again.
you, thank you....I will read every day!Though I know my
journey will never end, I am a survivor and from this day on I
will celebrate all the blessings of this world that has been
restored to me :)" (Jeanne Cameron)
"I’m starting my 6th week today with “The Woman You Want To
Be”. I started reading it last night because I couldn’t wait
until today. This book has helped me tremendously to get
my brain to re-think what a special person I am even though I
have never been treated special in my entire life of 58 years.
I was so anxious to get up this morning to starting reading my
e-book, that I was up at 4:00 AM., coffee in hand and reading
my book in the quiet of the morning. I never miss reading it…
I do not know if I would have survived and thrived if I had
not found you on the Internet." (Karen Hammond)
“The Woman You Want To Be” is the fruit of years of research,
studying all the information available and, above all,
listening to, and working with
women, to help them put the pain and the
hopelessness behind them. That way you can start to really use all
amazing qualities and resources.
You're probably not going to believe this right now, but women in
abusive relationships develop amazing strength. As
soon as you begin to harness it, you can build a better life for yourself than
you would ever have imagined.
Now, you too, can move beyond the emotional damage you’ve
been through and start to grow into the unique, amazing woman
you truly are. You can and will become the kind of happy, confident,
woman you admire.
Because your partner has told you you’re worthless, it does
mean your life is over!
How would you like to look forward to each new day instead of
wondering how you are going to get through it? Just like me, and
many, many other women, you’ll discover that a great new life lies
ahead of you.
Your life will be great because you’ll learn the secret of how to
shape it to be just the way you want it. Start today! You really can
fulfilling life. Best of all, if so many other women who've
been in abusive relationships can do it, that means that you CAN do it
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You’ll see how you can
put your abusive
relationship behind you and create the joyful, satisfying life you truly
deserve. No more looking back with regret; instead you will
look forward with confidence as you start to create the joyful,
satisfying life you truly deserve.
Imagine how great you’ll feel once you can:
Get rid of the fear that paralyses you
See your anxieties for what they really are
It's time to let go of the baggage that's been
holding you back.
overcome all the
negative self-talk and the habit of self-loathing
Stop letting setbacks get you down
Start to recognise all the possibilities and promise
of the future
Begin to harness your own powers to make the
changes you want
Believe in yourself
Recognize your strengths
Silence the critical voices in your head
Start to see yourself as you really are
Attract into your life people who will truly
care about you
Understand that what happened to you is not
Know that your past is not a life sentence
Break the abusive mould once and for all
Be an inspiring role model for your
Feel truly optimistic about your future
Find your own voice
Learn to love the person you are
The Woman You Want To Be.
And, best of all, grasp the
There really is life after an abusive
The bottom line is: you’re not alone.
Your feelings are a normal response to all that you’ve been through.
All of the misery, hurt, fear, humiliation, rejection, hopelessness,
depression, despair, paralysis and anger are part of the trauma of
the abusive relationship. You will be able to put all of
that behind you.
I know from my own personal experience how painful it is to
admit that you couldn’t make your relationship work. And I also know
how freeing it is to understand that a bad relationship is
not your fault.
I have enabled many,
many women to move on
from what you're experiencing right now.
ground-breaking e-book "The Woman You Want To Be", will walk you
through the whole 10 step process of rebuilding your belief in
yourself, over the course of a whole year.
This e-book will empower you to:
so that you know you can handle what the future holds for
Start to love
yourself, so you won't have to settle for crumbs from another
person ever again
Clear away your
negative thinking. This has been the single biggest block to changing your life for the better
self-esteem, so that other people will start to show you the
respect you deserve
and cherish your life
Use your new
confidence to create a happier, more meaningful and fulfilled
joy, peace and care you deserve.
did you know you changed someone’s life? I can’t believe how
I let one person decide how my life was going to be.” Betty
"The Woman You
Want To Be" cleared away my fears, doubts and lack of
self-esteem in a way I wouldn't have believed possible. I feel
you are talking to me personally.
Your words are gentle and reassuring. They teach me that I am
not to blame for my relationship.
I'm amazed how much stronger I feel as a result of working
through the Ten Steps. I'm so much calmer and happier.
My children have noticed the difference in me. I feel able to
face what lies ahead. Now I'm looking forward to the future
joyfully. (Sharon Hill)
"I do find the challenge of working through
your book is one of the best things I have found for
survivors. I'm sorry that it's taken a good portion of my life
to find out what I've missed and WHO I've missed becoming. The
best part of that is the realization that the rest of my life
doesn't have to be more of the same but a new and improved me.
As soon as I started to read “The Woman You Want To Be, I
grabbed a binder and wrote my contract and listed my things
for celebration and began to feel that there was someone out
there who really understood the abuse I've felt and the scars
there are. Thank you. For writing your book, for understanding
what it feels like to feel worthless and hopeless
I can say I only spent 1 hour feeling despondent yesterday. I
will feel better. Your book is the most valuable recovery tool
I have used." (Kris F)
“Thank you for writing such a wonderful programme” (Vicki)
'I recommend this
e-book to any survivor of an
abusive relationship. If you don't already recognise your own
magnificent strength and courage, you will after reading this.
Annie's warm, witty and supportive writing enables you to
recognise and find your way home to you.'(Ruth Hadikin)
‘The Woman You Want To Be’ acts as a step by step guide to an
inner journey that takes about a year. However, Annie doesn’t
want us to focus solely on that end point; rather she wants us
to enjoy and honour the process and see results daily. Her
e-book, which is essentially practical, encourages the reader to rediscover their joy along the journey.
This e-book has been carefully crafted to ‘speak to’ the reader
and to empower her to make the life changes she yearns to
‘The Woman You Want To Be’ uses the language and tradition of
fairytales and combines this with a clear message and
workbook. It engages the reader in many ways: visually,
metaphorically, spiritually, emotionally and practically.
My bookcase had a whole shelf full of self-help books. Was
this e-book going to solve my problems any better than all the
others have? I thought about what I had done with all the
other books. Some I had read cover to cover immediately. What
was I expecting? Instant answers to all my problems? Some I
had started but only read a few pages of...
I realised I had been looking for answers outside of myself,
expecting someone else to solve my problems for me -
What your e-book has shown me is that I can't change the past
but I can aim for a far better future. It shows me how I can
find the time, space and resources within myself to create the
future I want. I've stopped living in vain hope of instant
change. Instead, I am enjoying this new route I am travelling.
“I started the e-book program Tuesday. all
the positive reinforcement I can get at this point. I really
have appreciated the honest, positive material and my frame of
mind has improved quite a bit already as I see how brainwashed
I was, how much I've come through, and that I do have the
resources within me to overcome it and learn from it and have
a happier, peaceful, life as a strong woman and take a stand
against such abuse and hopefully help other women as
you have.” Mary
|“I love “The Woman You Want To Be”.
I am on Step 4.” Nancy
|"I must admit I cheated and
read right through your book first :-) the best I have ever
read in this area, I am so amazed!! I'll start the program
If you worry that you're just a
shadow of the woman you once were
If you're wondering whether you
have the strength to heal from all you've been through
If you've been terrified of making
the same mistakes all over again, and again
If you've ever thought that
your life was over
You've come to the right
for the help you need, in the place where you are
My e-book, "The Woman You Want To Be" shares with
you the uniquely powerful, simple to follow strategy for abuse
that I spent 5 years developing.
They'll work for anyone who takes them
on board and uses them for just 10 minutes a day.
Are you willing to reinvent yourself as the extraordinary,
vibrant, brilliant woman you know, deep inside, that you truly can
Are you prepared to choose who, and what you want in
This is not a pipe dream.
And it's not hype.
You won't wake up tomorrow and be a totally
different person. But if you are prepared to spend just 10
minutes a day on your own recovery, you'll soon start to notice
the difference. Because
you'll be surprised to
discover how soon you start to:
value yourself as much as you value your loved ones
trust your own intuition
regain your zest for life
trust yourself first, so that you can trust other people
use your strength to protect your children from emotional trauma
feel truly in charge of your life
make the small manageable changes that can totally transform your
be respectful of your own feelings
focus on all that is good in your life
cherish your uniqueness
make the transition from survivor to thriver
appreciate the precious contribution you make to the other people
in your life
rise from the ashes of an abusive relationship
Most books on abusive
relationships give you the case studies and explain the nature of
abuse from a clinical standpoint
They're written about women who have been
abused, rather than for women who have been abused.
"The Woman You Want To Be" acknowledges all that
abused women have been through, and then looks beyond it.
Discover your unique strengths
Speak out confidently in your own voice - and
never be silenced again
Rid yourself once and for all of the old,
damaging negativity - and view yourself, your loved ones and
your life in a positive way.
Believe that you deserve the very best -
and so have a real chance of getting it, consistently.
As you go through "The Woman You Want To Be", you'll
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you'll come to understand how you can nurture and sustain
yourself emotionally, whatever the circumstances. Which
means NO MORE overwhelming feelings of helplessness and
You'll find that you can
experience enduring happiness
attract the good relationships you desire
know the joy of truly living each and every day
All this is available to you right now
If you're sick and tired of
being emotionally drained,
you can start to change your life for the better today.
your book, and thought....been there done that, but a few
little words of wisdom in your book made purchase in my mind.
I never did any of the exercises in the book...just read
straight through looking for something, anything to feel
better. I want you to know I am better now. I have read so
many books, but I mentally practiced the precepts in your
book, and they worked. I am a different person today.
The book is excellent.
Like many women I am sure you counsel, I have been in shock
and grief after an abusive relationship ended. I am using your
book to help me to rebuild my self. Thanks again.
I started reading your book yesterday and
already it has helped me realize just how much abuse I've been
going through. it has also given me the strength and
confidence to face the problem head on. Thanks so much Annie
for giving me back the confidence I had lost. (Tamba)
your on-line book after searching the internet for help. Your
book is really helping me & my attitude has changed because I
am following you program. I am going to be the woman I want
to be. Thank you. (Irene J)
I bought your e-book a while back and
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