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"What
is
stopping YOU from
getting over the trauma and the pain
of your abusive relationship and
getting your life back?"
"Give me just one hour of your
time, each week, for 10 weeks and I guarantee you will
feel much freer of your abusive partner,
and much happier about yourself and
your life…
or your money back."
Dear Friend,
You
never wanted
to be in an abusive relationship; we both know that.
So what
kept you there?
But
something kept you there, way after you should have left.
Something kept you there and it gnawed away at your
self-esteem and your identity, and pretty much everything that
mattered to you.
I don’t
know you, but I do have an idea of what you’re feeling right
now, because I’ve been there. I’ve felt the despair
and the fear, the shame and the worthlessness, the paralysis
and the self-loathing.
If
anyone had told me then that one 10 hour course, spread over
10 weeks, would have transformed everything and fast-tracked
my recovery, I’d have laughed in their face.
"10
hours to move on from the misery of an abusive relationship?"
"10 hours to put behind me a man I still ‘loved?"
"10 hours to clear the self-doubt and believe that I
can have a great future?"
"10 hours
to go from hating myself to LOVING myself??!"
Yes, you
really can do it!
Over the
last 8 years I’ve worked with over 7,500 women, helping them
to heal from an abusive relationship. I’ve discovered the
very best techniques and strategies for healing, and the
fastest, most
powerful ways to communicate.
Because
I did it the hard way, I do everything possible to make
healing as quick and painless as possible for the women I work
with.
Over the
10 week Accelerated Healing Teleclass Program you’ll learn how
to :
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Understand what happened and why it happened
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Let go
of your abusive relationship once and for all
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Develop an 'early warning system' to spot the red flags,
FAST
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Build
strong boundaries
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Feel
happy now
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View
your partner objectively, without getting sucked into all
the old emotional quagmire
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Get clear of the old negative feelings and stay on track
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Stay
motivated and keep taking
action to move forward
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Say
“No” with confidence, and be heard
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Recognise abusive men and abusive behaviours
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Acknowledge your own strengths and qualities
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Look
forward to a better future
And you
will receive the answers you need to the questions
that, until now, have kept you stuck in ‘victim mode’
including:
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“Why does he treat me this way?”
·
“Will he
ever change?”
·
“What are the chances of transforming this relationship?”
·
“How do I get my self-esteem back?”
You will understand exactly
why it is not your fault;
and it never was.
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“You’ve been like a miracle in my life.”
Jessy M. |
The two
things that stop you
moving on
In the
years I’ve worked with abused women on their healing
journey, I’ve noticed that just two things keep abused
women stuck in a Trance of Misery created by their
abusive relationship:
·They
believe his propaganda, and think it’s all over for
them.
·They
don’t believe that they ever can heal. Or at least, not
in any foreseeable future.
Those
beliefs are WRONG!
Suppose you
could change them?
Starting June 2009, I started running The Accelerated 10
Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Teleclasses. (That is
a 10 step program, delivered over the phone, to women who
had had enough of living a fraction of their potential,
and their happiness.)
The results have
been fantastic. In just 10 weeks – and sometimes less –
the women on it have experienced massive
transformation.
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This course has been
invaluable and life changing.
This has been the most enabling, empowering
advice I have had in 7 years." Rosie J.
I am not sure what exactly what part of your
teleclasses helped me to change, but it WORKED!!! I
want to say thank you, from my heart.
First, I wrote to you and asked for your help
because I was in a terrible way and needed help.
I listen to your recorded sessions more than one
time. It took a few times to really get the
understanding that I needed, I feel as I have some
control over my life now and it feels wonderful.
You were so right about everything!! As an abused
woman, we walk around bleeding in a sense, and don't
even know it. Your classes really have helped me to
get the big “V” off my head. I don't need or want
to be a VICTIM anymore!
The men that treat me poorly can take a walk. I was
acting like a victim and of course, I was being
treated like one. It remarkable! You are heaven
sent and thank you so very much for letting me hear
the classes that I needed so much.
I really do feel the change and it's enlightening.
So much weight has been lifted. It's so true, when
we make ourselves be first. And put energy into our
OWN lives, things kind of fall into place. With your
help and God's help, the victim is all gone. Never
will I let anyone treat me poorly, ever again.
Annie, you’re an ANGEL. THANK YOU !!!! (Danette
R)
"I just wanted to drop you a line to
say that as I was speaking with you tonight about my
reluctance to cut this emotionally abusive guy out
of my life once and for all I realized that I can
choose happiness or choose things that will bring me
unhappiness. This guy brings me unhappiness and
I've just got to let go and start doing the things
that make me happy. It's as simple as that.
I choose Happiness.
Boy, you'd think it would be easier
for me to have reached this conclusion. But I guess
I had to hear myself talk about it to "get it".
Thanks for listening and more importantly your
feedback and not letting me off the hook.
(Carol M.)
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In
just 10 weeks they have learned to:
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Feel good about themselves
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Let go of trying to make an abusive relationship
work
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Trust that they can have a great future
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Find much better ways to deal with the challenges
they face
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Recognise dangerous men
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Create boundaries
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Put their own needs first
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Feel happy in the moment
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NOW! The
Accelerated 10 step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program
Over the 10 week course, you will
receive the answers you need to the questions that, until
now, have kept you stuck in ‘victim mode’ including:
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“Why does he treat me this way?”
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“Will he ever change?”
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“What are the chances of transforming this relationship?”
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“How do I get my self-esteem back?”
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“Is it my fault?”
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“How do I start to rebuild my life?”
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“How
do I stop myself going back to him?”
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“Can I be sure it won’t happen again?”
What really stops abused women from moving
on?
It’s NOT what you think!
Abused women constantly tell me why
they can’t move on. Some of the things they say are:
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“I
still love him”
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“I can’t manage without him”
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“I’m not strong enough”
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“He’s like an addiction for me”
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“I’ll
never find anyone as good again.”
None of the above are the real
reason. The real reason why women stay stuck in the trauma
of an abusive relationship is they don’t know how to move on.
Nobody enjoys misery. Abused women
only stick with the misery because nobody has shown them the
quick, effective way to leave the misery behind.
Give them the tools and the
insights to heal and everything changes. FAST.
Yes, but will it work for me, Annie?
I've been through so much."
It has worked for everyone
who has stayed with the program and done the work.
Can I give you a CAST IRON
guarantee that it will work for you? I can't. But
you do have my guarantee that in the unlikely situation that you
stay with the program, do the work, and it doesn't work for you, I
guarantee that I will refund your money in full.
I understand that after all the
uncertainty and problems you have been through, you don't want any
more risk in your life. So, I've done everything I possibly
can to put the only risk on me.
“Ok, so how do you move me
from stuck to happy, from fearful to believing
I can have a better future, Annie?”
Abused women suffer with
relationship tunnel vision. (I should know, I was once one of
the worst sufferers.) Once you start to look outside the
tunnel, you start to see your life; that is,
the life you can have.
“What do you mean, Annie?”
Nobody chooses a miserable
life, or stays with it, because they want to. You stay with
it because it is all that you can see. Once your eyes are opened to
life beyond the relationship tunnel, you can start to go
straight for it. So your healing happens much, much
faster than you could possibly imagine.
But you can’t know that, yet.
So let me tell you about just some of the things you will learn:
In this Accelerated 10
Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program you will find out all
you will ever need to know about:
1)
The circle of Violence
and the Circle of Healing.
The main reason women stay in an abusive relationship is because
they don’t understand what is going on. Once your see that all
you will ever be is a hamster on the treadmill of abuse that is
NOT going to change, EVER, letting go becomes
much, much easier.
2) Your relationship blueprint.
Bad relationships don’t just happen to us. Sure, we don’t deserve
them, but abused women are vulnerable to bad relationships,
because of their relationship blueprint. Understanding yours is
the first step towards changing it.
3) How to step out of victim
thinking and into personal responsibility. Abusers control,
they leave their victims feeling powerless. Becoming aware of your
compliance in the situation, of your acceptance of his power to dish
out whatever he likes, will restore your power to
make different choices and hold more positive beliefs about yourself.
4) Laying down boundaries.
Abused women have no boundaries, not so? They believe that they
have to do everything for a partner. In return their
partner will exploit them every which way. Creating boundaries is
the only safeguard against allowing more abuse into your
life.
5)
Tools for
change. This may be the most important
module in the entire course. You will learn simple tools that you
can use, whenever you need them to protect yourself from falling
back into old destructive patterns.
6)
Creating
lasting self-worth. Low self-worth
probably took you into the relationship. Staying in the
relationship destroyed what self-worth you had, and zero
self-worth makes it hard to move on. You will discover how to
break free from the negative brainwashing of an abusive partner
and start believing in yourself.
7)
Letting go of your
abusive relationship. Given what you have been through, you’d
think it would be easy to let go. In reality, the exact opposite
is true. You will learn why women hold on, and how you can
finally let go.
8)
Reconnecting
with the woman you once were. I’ve
never spoken to an abusive woman who doesn’t remember a time when
she felt strong and in charge of her life. You will learn
the best possible way to reconnect with that
empowered you.
9)
Learning to
ask for what you want and need. In your
abusive relationship you learn to settle for crumbs; crumbs of
love from your partner and crumbs of life for yourself. You will
learn how to feel safe asking for what you need from other people,
as well as how you can ask more of yourself and get it.
10)
Creating the
relationship you want. There is an
unspoken rule in relationships: you get what really believe you
deserve in your heart of hearts. (That’s how so many of us got
into abusive relationships in the first place.) Before you
can enjoy a good relationship, you need to be able to:
a)
visualize that relationship
b) be
very clear about what you truly want.
You will discover how to know
exactly what you want so you can do this for yourself.
CLICK HERE
to sign up now.
Is that all, Annie?
Or is there more?”
Actually, there is more. There will
also be the opportunity to ask your burning question, and
get it answered. There will be a Question and Answer session
on every call, so you can voice your most pressing concerns.
“So, where’s the catch, Annie?
What is this going to cost me?”
I want to make sure these
teleclasses are as affordable as possible. Because I remember
how I felt when I was starting out on my abuse
recovery journey, the way you are now. I was terrified that I would
waste money I didn’t have and be no better off at the end of it.
I couldn’t begin to imagine that I would ever feel good again. I
felt unsupported, and under attack. There was nobody to say to me:
“The investment you make in your
recovery, will be the best investment you ever make.”
I could not know, then, I certainly
could not believe then, how fast I would begin to feel better,
once I discovered the very best recovery tools and techniques
that I now teach.
For me, and for so many women that I
work with, recovery means massive improvement in your quality
of life. It means that you:
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Learn to love yourself
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Become a changed, positive person
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Feel in charge of your life
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Become confident about building better
relationships
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Feel good about yourself and other people
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Rebuild your self-worth
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See your life open up, often in directions you would never have
imagined
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Start to enjoy
your life again
But don’t take my word for
it! Read what some other women have
said about my teleclasses:
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“Thank
you so much for the wonderful teleclass. Your material is
so important and it affects everyone. I recently went
through a divorce and this is really going to help me to
move forward.” Joan S.
Thanks for all your
help in the telegroup. It's helped me through this
transition time of separation and kept me focused on what
I want and need (after figuring out what it was!)
Laura B.
You hit the nail on the
head almost every time for what I'm feeling. Thank you so
much! Kirsten B.
“The teleclass was wonderful, and I
appreciate what you do very much.” Karen H.
“The
teleclasses were riveting. I’d really like to listen to
them again.” Valerie J.
“I had
felt that my life had no direction. I now feel that I am in
charge of my own future. I am a changed woman.”
Vicki
H.
“I felt
really depressed; lost lonely, as my situation couldn’t get
any worse. Now I feel more positive about my future.”
Jeannie S.
“ I was
feeling very, very bad. Now I feel better. I don’t feel
afraid. I’m different now..”Rose
W
‘Before I
started working with you, I felt I had extremely low
self-esteem. I felt stuck in a rut and that nobody really
cared about me except the kids. I now feel positive about
my future “whatever” that may be. I am starting to move
into a much brighter and happier world and I’m really
starting to like myself…. I have found the way you have
managed to get the right stuff into my head amazing and
enlightening.’ Kelly Darlin
“ Its
always been in my heart to send you an email to let you know
that the course has made me a brand new person I've always
wanted to be, "ME" Thandi. Thank you for helping me
rediscover myself. One of the things I have learned in the
course was to give credit where is earned, so there you have
it.” Thandi M
“I found
this course a real godsend.” Anna
C
“At the
start of this course, I didn’t know how I could manage
without my abusive partner. 6 weeks on, I have so much more
confidence. I now have a good job and faith in the future.
I don’t believe that would have happened without this
course.” Susan S.
“I’d more
or less given up hope. I felt I had been through too much
and was too old to start over. That’s changed completely.
I feel more positive about the future than I ever have in my
life before. “ Angela H.
“Wow! That
was one of the best classes I ever heard. You single
handedly absolved me of my guilt that my relationship did
not work out; you said: "it takes two people". All I ever
heard before was, if you change your thoughts you can change
the other person and you said, no they have to be committed
to the relationship too.
So thank you so much for
that, you certainly made a difference in a lot of people's
lives tonight!” Alexis W
"What a great teleclass we
had last night!! You were fantastic! Thanks for all
your assistance and great information." Cecilia
I am
on my way today to see an lawyer to start my divorce
proceedings. Thank you for all your help. It is
really a big step.. it took me a long time to get there
. I started your classes in June and it has really
clarified a lot of the way my life is and how I want it
to be for myself and my children. My husband is
sick and I kept feeding into his sickness for many
years. It is true that after a while it becomes an
addiction even to the victim. I want to get clean and
stay off forever .
Thank you for your encouragement and strength. Amanda
B
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CLICK
HERE to sign up now!
“OK, Annie, it sounds good.
But tell me:
Where? When? How?
How Much?
Where?
You will simply have to call a US
phone number, or Bridge Line to hear the call, at normal rates.
When?
On Monday evenings, at 6pm
ET, starting Monday Nov 2nd.
There will be no class on
December 21st
There will be a BONUS Q & A
session on December 28th.
Teleclasses will resume as normal on
Jan 4th 2010
How?
You will call in to the number you
will be given to listen to the call. You will have the
opportunity to ask your question during the call.
There will be written materials that
you will be able to access from a webpage, and you will be able to
contact me via email.
How much?
Normally I charge $300 per hour
for -1-2-1 coaching. My normal rate for Abuse Recovery
Coaching, which is already heavily discounted is $100 per
hour.
I’m happy to offer this whole 10 week course to you for
just $100. That means you get 10 hours of the
best I have to offer, including the opportunity to ask me your
questions, for less than the normal cost of 1 hr’s coaching. At
just $10 per hour, it’s a complete steal. (Here in the UK
$10 barely covers the cost of a couple of magazines, or two caffelattes.)
EVEN BETTER!
You will get to benefit from everything I can teach
you, as well as sharing thoughts, feelings and wisdom with the
other women in the group.
You will discover that you’re not
alone, and talking with other women who have had similar
experiences will help you overcome the guilt and shame
and self-blame that has kept you stuck.
Hold
that thought!
“What
if I have to miss a call or two?”
Just suppose you
can’t listen to a call at the scheduled time. It will be recorded
and you will be able to listen to it at any time that works for
you. (Sure, you won’t be able to speak, but
you will still gain massive benefits from what you hear.)
The whole teleclass will be recorded and uploaded to my website,
so you will be able to listen to it at your convenience.
BUT WAIT!
THERE’S MORE!
As a
bonus, I’m throwing in a FREE copy of my
ebook “How To Say ‘No’ And Still Feel Good About Yourself”,
that normally sells for $37.
I’ll also throw
in a copy of “The Relationship Workbook” (value $27.00),
which is a great tool for changing the way you look at
relationships.
That’s 10 hours
of my time, plus bonus materials for just $100.
Are
there any other costs involved?
Only normal
long distances charges by each caller's carrier apply.
Now you know the cost but
Do you have any idea of
All the positive changes you’ll make
As a result of taking this teleclass?
What is transformation worth to you?
CLICK HERE
to sign up today.
You will be taken to a secure payment page, and from there to
a page with all the details you will need to access the calls.
If
you do nothing, nothing will change. But if you just start
applying what you will learn over the 10 weeks in this teleclass,
you too will be a changed woman, who feels positive about your
future and good about herself.
Looking forward to working with you to help you
create the future you want for yourself.
Warm wishes,
Annie Kaszina
P.S.
This is your golden
opportunity to give yourself the gifts of happiness and self-worth
in 2010.
For
too long now, you have put yourself last and settled for crumbs.
Seize this opportunity to know that you can go into the New Year
with hope - and the tools - to create a
much, much better future for yourself.
CLICK HERE
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