Emotional Abuse Recovery NOW


 

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Rosie J.

 

“How Do I
Move On From
An Abusive Relationship?”

 

EVERYTHING I’ve learned about
healing from an abusive relationship
delivered to YOU, down the phone
 in
‘easy pieces’. 

 Dear Friend,

Thousands of women have contacted me over the years to ask: “How do I get over the trauma of an abusive relationship and move on?” 

These women really want to put the misery of an abusive relationship behind them. But they don’t know how.  They’ve been through agony and now they want to get on with their lives they’re ready to live a rewarding life and create a happy, fulfilling future for themselves. They write from all over the world.   

Some are young, some are not, some have been in their relationship for months, most have been there for years, even decades. Some have children, some don’t. The difficulty they share, the question they ask is:

How can I get the abuse I’ve suffered
out of my head,
once and for all?

Is it possible ever to
overcome all the hurt I've been through?
” 

They ask: "How can I start to live my life, without my abuser’s words constantly echoing in my head?" 

Abused women ask the same questions whether they live in the US or the UK, India or Ireland, Australia or Africa. 

Why is that? 

Abusive men are all the same.  In fact, they are all the same the world over.  Hence they say the same things, they   inflict the same damage, and the 10 steps to healing, remain the same, the world over.  

For years now, I’ve been running 10 Step Recovery Programs for abused women here in the UK.  They have been massively successful in helping women move on further, and faster, than they would have believed possible.

Finally the penny dropped! 

I said to myself: “You have to offer your Accelerated 10 Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program in a teleclass format.  When are you going to realize that group coaching is fantastically effective delivered over the phone?  It may even be more effective than when it is delivered face to face - because there are no excuses for missing a session.  (At the very worst, you always have the recording to listen to.)  When people work as a group, they benefit from the power of the group: moving one person on, moves everyone on.” 

 “You’ve been like a miracle in my life.”   Jessy M.

 

What stops abused women from
Getting over the abuse and
Getting their life back?
 

In the years I’ve worked with abused women on their healing journey, I’ve noticed that just two things keep abused women stuck in a Trance of Misery created by their abusive relationship: 

·They believe his propaganda and think it’s all over for them.

·They don’t believe that they ever can heal.  Or at least, not in any foreseeable future.

It doesn’t have to be like that!

Starting June this year, I ran the first Accelerated 10 Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Teleclass.  The results have been fantastic.  In just 10 weeks – and sometimes less – the women on it have experienced massive transformation. 

 

"I just wanted to drop you a line to say that as I was speaking with you tonight about my reluctance to cut this emotionally abusive guy out of my life once and for all I realized that I can choose happiness or choose things that will bring me unhappiness.  This guy brings me unhappiness and I've just got to let go and start doing the things that make me happy.  It's as simple as that. 

I choose Happiness. 

Boy, you'd think it would be easier for me to have reached this conclusion.  But I guess I had to hear myself talk about it to "get it".  Thanks for listening and more importantly your feedback and not letting me off the hook. 

Cheers, 

Carol M

 

In just 10 weeks they have learned to:

·        Feel good about themselves

·        Let go of trying to make an abusive relationship work

·        Trust that they can have a great future

·        Find much better ways to deal with the challenges they face

·        Recognise dangerous men

·        Create boundaries

·        Put their own needs first

·        Feel happy in the moment

And much, much more.

NOW! The Accelerated  10 step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program

Over the 10 week course, you will receive the answers you need to the questions that, until now, have kept you stuck in ‘victim mode’ including: 

  • “Why does he treat me this way?”

  • “Will he ever change?”

  • “What are the chances of transforming this relationship?”

  • “How do I get my self-esteem back?”

  • “Is it my fault?”

  • “How do I start to rebuild my life?”

  • How do I stop myself going back to him?”

  • “Can I be sure it won’t happen again?”

What really stops abused women from moving on?

It’s NOT what you think!

Abused women constantly tell me why they can’t move on. Some of the things they say are:

  • I still love him

  • “I can’t manage without him”

  • “I’m not strong enough”

  • “He’s like an addiction for me”

  • I’ll never find anyone as good again.

None of the above are the real reason.  The real reason why women stay stuck in the trauma of an abusive relationship is they don’t know how to move on.  

Nobody enjoys misery.  Abused women only stick with the misery because nobody has shown them the quick, effective way to leave the misery behind.  

Give them the tools and the insights to heal and everything changes.  FAST. 

“How do you do that, Annie?” 

Abused women suffer with relationship tunnel vision.  (I should know, I was once one of the worst sufferers.)  Once you start to look outside the tunnel, you start to see your life; that is, the life you can have.   

“What do you mean, Annie?” 

Nobody chooses a miserable life, or stays with it, because they want to.  They stay with it because it is all they can see.  Once their eyes are opened to life beyond the relationship tunnel, the can start to go straight for it.  So their healing happens much, much faster than they could possibly have imagined.   

But you can’t know that, yet.  So let me tell me just some of the things you will learn: 

In this Accelerated 10 Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program you will find out all you will ever need to know about: 

1)    The circle of Violence and the Circle of Healing.  The main reason women stay in an abusive relationship is because they don’t understand what is going on.  Once they see that all they will ever be hamsters on a treadmill of abuse that is NOT going to change, EVER; letting go becomes much, much easier

2)  Your relationship blueprint.    Bad relationships don’t just happen to us.  Sure, we don’t deserve them, but abused women are vulnerable to  bad relationships, because of their relationship blueprint.  Understanding yours is the first step towards changing it. 

3)  How to step out of victim thinking and into personal responsibility.  Abusers control, they leave their victims feeling powerless.  Ownership of your compliance in the situation, your acceptance of his power to dish out whatever he likes, will restore your power to make different choices and hold different beliefs about yourself.   

4) Laying down boundaries.  Abused women have no boundaries, not so?  They believe that they have to do everything for a partner.  In return their partner will exploit them every which way. Creating boundaries is the only safeguard against allowing more abuse into your life. 

5)     Tools for change.  This may be the most important module in the entire course.  You will learn simple tools that you can use whenever you need them to protect yourself from falling back into old destructive patterns. 

6)     Creating lasting self-worth. Low self-worth probably took you into the relationship.  Staying in the relationship destroyed what self-worth you had, and zero self-worth makes it hard to move on.  You will discover how to break free from the negative brainwashing of an abusive partner and start believing in yourself. 

7)      Letting go of your abusive relationship. Given what you have been through, you’d think it would be easy to let go.  In reality, the exact opposite is true.  You will learn why women hold on and how you can finally let go

8)     Reconnecting with the woman you once were.  I’ve never spoken to an abusive woman who doesn’t remember a time when she felt strong and in charge of her life.  You will learn the best possible way to reconnect with that empowered you. 

9)     Learning to ask for what you want and need.  In your abusive relationship you learn to settle for crumbs; crumbs of love from your partner and crumbs of life for yourself.  You will learn how to feel safe asking for what you need from other people, as well as how you can ask more of yourself and get it.   

10) Creating the relationship you want.  There is an unspoken rule in relationships: you get what really believe you deserve in your heart of hearts. (That’s how so many of us got into abusive relationships in the first place.)  Before you can enjoy a good relationship, you need to be able to:

a) visualize that relationship

b) be very clear about what you truly want.

You will discover how to know exactly what you want so you can do this for yourself.

CLICK HERE to sign up now.

“Is that all, Annie? 
Or is there more?” 

Actually, there is more.  There will also be the opportunity to ask your burning question and get it answered.  There will be a Question and Answer session on every call, so you can voice your most pressing concerns. 

“So, where’s the catch, Annie?
What is this going to cost me?” 

I want to make sure these teleclasses are as affordable as possible, because I remember how I felt all those years ago when I was starting out on my abuse recovery journey, like you are now.  I was terrified that I would waste money I didn’t have and be no better off at the end of it.  I couldn’t begin to imagine that I would ever feel good again.  I felt unsupported, and under attack. There was nobody to say to me: “The investment you make in your recovery, will be the best investment you ever make.” 

I could not know, then, I certainly could not believe then, how fast I would begin to feel better, once I discovered the very best recovery tools and techniques that I now teach. 

For me, and for so many women that I work with, recovery means massive improvement in your quality of life. It means that you: 

  • Learn to love yourself

  • Become a changed, positive person

  • Feel in charge of your life

  • Become confident about building better relationships

  • Feel good about yourself and other people

  • Rebuild your self-worth

  • See your life open up, often in directions you would never have imagined

But don’t take my word for it!  Read what some other women have said about my teleclasses: 

 

 “Thank you so much for the wonderful teleclass.  Your material is so important and it affects everyone.  I recently went through a divorce and this is really going to help me to move forward.”  Joan S.

You hit the nail on the head almost every time for what I'm feeling.  Thank you so much! Kirsten B.

“The teleclass was wonderful, and I appreciate what you do very much.” Karen H.  

“The teleclasses were riveting.  I’d really like to listen to them again.” Valerie J. 

“I had felt that my life had no direction.  I now feel that I am in charge of my own future. I am a changed woman.”

Vicki H.
 

“I felt really depressed; lost lonely, as my situation couldn’t get any worse.  Now I feel more positive about my future.” Jeannie S.

 

“ I was feeling very, very bad.  Now I feel better.  I don’t feel afraid.  I’m different now..”Rose W

 

‘Before I started working with you, I felt I had extremely low self-esteem.  I felt stuck in a rut and that nobody really cared about me except the kids.  I now feel positive about my future “whatever” that may be.  I am starting to move into a much brighter and happier world and I’m really starting to like myself…. I have found the way you have managed to get the right stuff into my head amazing and enlightening.’   Kelly Darlin

 

“ Its always been in my heart to send you an email to let you know that the course has made me a brand new person I've always wanted to be, "ME" Thandi. Thank you for helping me rediscover myself. One of the things I have learned in the course was to give credit where is earned, so there you have it.”  Thandi M

 

“I found this course a real godsend.”  Anna C

 

“At the start of this course, I didn’t know how I could manage without my abusive partner.  6 weeks on, I have so much more confidence.  I now have a good job and faith in the future.  I don’t believe that would have happened without this course.” Susan S.

 

“I’d more or less given up hope.  I felt I had been through too much and was too old to start over.  That’s changed completely.  I feel more positive about the future than I ever have in my life before. “  Angela H. 

“Wow! That was one of the best classes I ever heard. You single handedly absolved me of my guilt that my relationship did not work out; you said: "it takes two people". All I ever heard before was, if you change your thoughts you can change the other person and you said, no they have to be committed to the relationship too. 

So thank you so much for that, you certainly made a difference in a lot of people's lives tonight!” Alexis W

 

 CLICK HERE to sign up now! 

“OK, Annie, it sounds good.

But tell me:

Where? When? How?

How Much? 

Where?

You will simply have to call a US phone number, or Bridge Line to hear the call, at normal rates.  (Just the same as if you were calling

When? 

On Monday evenings, at 6pm ET, starting Monday  Nov 2nd

There will be no class on December 21st

There will be a BONUS Q & A session on December 28th. 

Teleclasses will resume as normal on Jan 4th 2010

How?

You will call in to the number you will be given to listen to the call.  You will have the opportunity to ask your question during the call. 

There will be written materials that you will be able to access from a webpage, and you will be able to contact me via email.

How much? 

My normal rate for Abuse Recovery Coaching, which is already heavily discounted is $100 per hour.  I’m happy to offer this whole 10 week course to you for just $100.  That means you get 10 hours of the best I have to offer, including the opportunity to ask me your questions, for less than the normal cost of 1 hr’s coaching.  At just $10 per hour, it’s a complete steal.  (Here in the UK $10 barely covers the cost of a couple of magazines, or two caffelattes.)  

EVEN BETTER!  You will get to benefit from everything I can teach you, as well as sharing thoughts, feelings and wisdom with the other women in the group.   

You will discover that you’re not alone, and talking with other women who have had similar experiences will help you overcome the guilt and shame and self-blame that has kept you stuck.

 Hold that thought!

 “What if I have to miss a call or two?”

 

Just suppose you can’t listen to a call at the scheduled time.  It will be recorded and you will be able to listen to it at any time that works for you.  (Sure, you won’t be able to speak, but you will still gain massive benefits from what you hear.)  The whole teleclass will be recorded and uploaded to my website, so you will be able to listen to it at your convenience.

 

"Okay, but what if it doesn't work for me?  What if there is no hope for me."

 

Did you know that's the biggest worry of every abused woman?  (Don't worry, that was my biggest worry, too.)

 

Here's the deal: I'm completely and utterly convinced that if you stick with the program, it WILL work for you.  But let's play worst case scenarios: you attend the teleclasses (or download them later) and nothing changes.  In that case, I'm happy to refund your money: if I can't help you, there's no way I would want to keep it.

 

BUT WAIT!  THERE’S MORE!

 

As a bonus, I’m throwing in a FREE copy of my ebook “How To Say ‘No’ And Still Feel Good About Yourself”, that normally sells for $37.

 

I’ll also throw in a copy of “The Relationship Workbook” (value $27.00), which is a great tool for changing the way you look at relationships. 

 

That’s 10 hours of my time, plus bonus materials for just $100.

 

Are there any other costs involved?

Only normal long distances charges by each caller's carrier apply.

 

Now you know the cost but

Do you have any idea of

how much this teleprogram could be worth to you? 

 

What's it worth to you to put your abusive relationship behind you and rebuild your life?

 

CLICK HERE to sign up today  You will be taken to a secure payment page, and from there to a page with all the details you will need to access the calls.


 If you do nothing, nothing will change.  But if you just start applying what you will learn over the 10 weeks in this teleclass, you too will be a changed woman, feeling happy and positive and looking forward to a better future.

 

I look forward to working with you to help you create the future you want for yourself.  I look forward to sharing a laugh with you and listening to you sharing your wins and insights.

 

Warm wishes,

 

Annie Kaszina

 

  P.S.  Do you want 2010 to be the year you get your life back on track?  If so this could be your golden opportunity

 

 Will you take it?

 

CLICK HERE to sign up for your Accelerated Healing Journey.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 


 

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