stops abused women
getting over the trauma and the pain and
getting their life back?
"Give me just one hour of your
time, each week, for 10 weeks and I guarantee you will
feel totally different about your abusive partner, yourself and
or your money back."
coaching has been the best I have ever experienced."
to be in an abusive relationship; we both know that.
something kept you there, way after you should have left.
Something kept you there and it gnawed away at your
self-esteem and your identity, and pretty much everything that
mattered to you.
know you, but I do have an idea of what you’re feeling right
now, because I’ve been there. Like you, I’ve
nearly drowned in the despair
and the fear, the shame and the worthlessness, the paralysis
and the self-loathing.
felt that my life was over, because of an abusive man.
anyone had told me then that one 10 hour course, spread over
10 weeks, would have transformed everything and fast-tracked
my recovery, I’d have laughed in their face.
hours to move on from the misery of an abusive relationship?"
"10 hours to put behind me a man I still ‘loved?"
"10 hours to clear the self-doubt and believe that I
can have a great future?"
to go from hating myself to LOVING myself??!"
really can do it!
healing came about the slow, painful way, because there was
nobody to point out the pitfalls and dangers, nobody to point
me in the right direction, nobody to keep me on track.
There were too many times when it felt I was hanging on to my
hope for the future by my teeth.
I did it the hard way, I do everything possible to make
healing as fast and painless as possible for the women I work
with. My greatest pleasure is to make the healing journey
as quick and easy for you as I possibly can.
last 8 years I’ve worked with over 7,500 women, helping them
to heal from an abusive relationship. I’ve discovered the
very best techniques and strategies for healing and the most
powerful ways to communicate them.
10 week Accelerated Healing Teleclass Program you’ll learn how
Develop an 'early warning system' to spot the red flags,
your partner objectively, without getting sucked into all
the old emotional quagmire
Get clear of the old negative feelings and stay on track
motivated and keep taking
action to move forward
“No” with confidence, and be heard
abusive men and abusive behaviours before it's too late
Acknowledge your own strengths and qualities
forward to a better future
will receive the answers you need to the questions
that, until now, have kept you stuck in ‘victim mode’
“Why does he treat me this way?”
“What are the chances of transforming this relationship?”
“How do I get my self-esteem back?”
You will understand exactly
why it is not your fault;
and it never was.
“You’ve been like a miracle in my life.”
things that stop you
years I’ve worked with abused women on their healing
journey, I’ve noticed that just two things keep abused
women stuck in a Trance of Misery created by their
believe his propaganda and think it’s all over for
don’t believe that they ever can heal. Or at least, not
in any foreseeable future.
beliefs are WRONG!
could change them?
Starting June 2009, I started running Accelerated 10
Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Teleclass Programs. The results have
been fantastic. In just 10 weeks – and sometimes less –
the women in the program have experienced massive
These are just some of the
things they say:
This course has been
invaluable and life changing.
This has been the most enabling, empowering
advice I have had in 7 years."
I am not sure what exactly what part of your
teleclasses helped me to change, but it WORKED!!! I
want to say thank you, from my heart.
First, I wrote to you and asked for your help
because I was in a terrible way and needed help.
I listen to your recorded sessions more than one
time. It took a few times to really get the
understanding that I needed, I feel as I have some
control over my life now and it feels wonderful.
You were so right about everything!! As an abused
woman, we walk around bleeding in a sense, and don't
even know it. Your classes really have helped me to
get the big “V” off my head. I don't need or want
to be a VICTIM anymore!
The men that treat me poorly can take a walk. I was
acting like a victim and of course, I was being
treated like one. It remarkable! You are heaven
sent and thank you so very much for letting me hear
the classes that I needed so much.
I really do feel the change and it's enlightening.
So much weight has been lifted. It's so true, when
we make ourselves be first. And put energy into our
OWN lives, things kind of fall into place. With your
help and God's help, the victim is all gone. Never
will I let anyone treat me poorly, ever again.
Annie, you’re an ANGEL. THANK YOU !!!! (Danette
"I just wanted to drop you a line to
say that as I was speaking with you tonight about my
reluctance to cut this emotionally abusive guy out
of my life once and for all I realized that I can
choose happiness or choose things that will bring me
unhappiness. This guy brings me unhappiness and
I've just got to let go and start doing the things
that make me happy. It's as simple as that.
I choose Happiness.
Boy, you'd think it would be easier
for me to have reached this conclusion. But I guess
I had to hear myself talk about it to "get it".
Thanks for listening and more importantly your
feedback and not letting me off the hook.
"I did not feel ashamed or sorry for myself"
I wanted to share a celebration with you.
Last night I went to see a movie by myself. I am 38
years old and have never attended a cinema alone. I
barely go to the store alone. I finally got the
courage last night to go. It was funny though, as I
stood in line outside for 10 minutes in the 19
degree weather (which is almost a record for Texas)
I did not feel ashamed, and noticed later that I
also did not feel sorry for myself for having to
stand in the line in the cold. Both of those are
such major accomplishments for me. Also, I left the
movie realizing that for the first time I was not
self conscious about being alone, and in fact didn't
"feel" alone. Something is different, I can't put
my finger on exactly what it is, but I am glad of
Thanks so much for your wisdom and care (Iris C.)
"You have renewed
my love for myself"
I have learned so much about myself. You have
renewed my love for myself. You always seem to
know what I am thinking or have complete knowledge
of the hurt and pain I have endured. You have
opened my eyes to see I do deserve better and I want
to be SPECIFIC about what I want when I enter into
another contract someday in the distant future. I am
so grateful for your class. (Joy F.)
I took your
Accelerated Healing Journey Teleprogram. I too felt
and thought much clearer and hopeful and better
about myself and my life. I will take your course
again as soon as I have enough money. Looking
forward to any other of your classes (courses tele
"I have a new found freedom"
I have finished your ten week class, re-listening to
the audio as well. After five long long years of
living with and in an abusive relationship, I
finally found the courage to say enough! It
has been two weeks, and while I can say that I feel
slightly disoriented, after all, I was tangled and
enmeshed into such chaos , but I also have a new
found freedom. The freedom to think and feel the
way I want. The freedom to say what’s on my mind
without fear of retribution. The freedom to have
lunch with my sister, my mom, and Gasp! even a male
friend from high school! I had no idea how my
abusive partner had cut me off from the world. I am
not taking his calls. I am ignoring the screaming
and yelling that he does in my driveway. I have
found a new ally in the local police department if
need be. People seem to talk to me differently at
the grocery store, standing in line at the post
office. Was I that tuned out that I hadn’t noticed?
Or has a veil just been lifted off my face? I have
been listening to the audios to keep reinforcing my
thoughts and to give me strength. Thank you from
the bottom of my heart! (Leanne S.)
just 10 weeks they have learned to:
Feel good about themselves
Let go of trying to make an abusive relationship
Trust that they can have a great future
Find much better ways to deal with the challenges
Recognise dangerous men
Put their own needs first
Feel happy in the moment
And much, much more.
Accelerated 10 step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program
Over the 10 week course, you will
receive the answers you need to the questions that, until
now, have kept you stuck in ‘victim mode’ including:
“Why does he treat me this way?”
“Will he ever change?”
“What are the chances of transforming this relationship?”
“How do I get my self-esteem back?”
“Is it my fault?”
“How do I start to rebuild my life?”
do I stop myself going back to him?”
“Can I be sure it won’t happen again?”
What really stops abused women from moving
It’s NOT what you think!
Abused women constantly tell me why
they can’t move on. Some of the things they say are:
still love him”
“I can’t manage without him”
“I’m not strong enough”
“He’s like an addiction for me”
never find anyone as good again.”
None of the above are the real
reason. The real reason why women stay stuck in the trauma
of an abusive relationship is they don’t know how to move on.
Nobody enjoys misery. Abused women
only stick with the misery because nobody has shown them the
quick, effective way to leave the misery behind.
Give them the tools and the
insights to heal and everything changes. FAST.
“How do you do that, Annie?”
Abused women suffer with
relationship tunnel vision. (I should know, I was once one of
the worst sufferers.) Once you start to look outside the
tunnel, you start to see your life; that is,
the life you can have.
"Ok, so how do you
from stuck to happy, from fearful to believing
I can have a better future, Annie?"
Nobody chooses a miserable
life, or stays with it, because they want to. They stay with it
because it is all they can see. Once their eyes are opened to
life beyond the relationship tunnel, the can start to go
straight for it. So their healing happens much, much faster
than they could possibly have imagined.
But you can’t know that, yet. So
let me tell me just some of the things you will learn:
In this Accelerated 10
Step Emotional Abuse Recovery Program you will find out all
you will ever need to know about:
The circle of Violence
and the Circle of Healing.
The main reason women stay in an abusive relationship is because
they don’t understand what is going on. Once they see that all
they will ever be hamsters on a treadmill of abuse that is
NOT going to change, EVER; letting go becomes
much, much easier.
2) Your relationship blueprint.
Bad relationships don’t just happen to us. Sure, we don’t deserve
them, but abused women are vulnerable to bad relationships,
because of their relationship blueprint. Understanding yours is
the first step towards changing it.
3) How to step out of victim
thinking and into personal responsibility. Abusers control,
they leave their victims feeling powerless. Ownership of your
compliance in the situation, your acceptance of his power to dish
out whatever he likes, will restore your power to
make different choices and hold different beliefs about yourself.
4) Laying down boundaries.
Abused women have no boundaries, not so? They believe that they
have to do everything for a partner. In return their
partner will exploit them every which way. Creating boundaries is
the only safeguard against allowing more abuse into your
change. This may be the most important
module in the entire course. You will learn simple tools that you
can use whenever you need them to protect yourself from falling
back into old destructive patterns.
lasting self-worth. Low self-worth
probably took you into the relationship. Staying in the
relationship destroyed what self-worth you had, and zero
self-worth makes it hard to move on. You will discover how to
break free from the negative brainwashing of an abusive partner
and start believing in yourself.
Letting go of your
abusive relationship. Given what you have been through, you’d
think it would be easy to let go. In reality, the exact opposite
is true. You will learn why women hold on and how you can
finally let go.
with the woman you once were. I’ve
never spoken to an abusive woman who doesn’t remember a time when
she felt strong and in charge of her life. You will learn
the best possible way to reconnect with that
ask for what you want and need. In your
abusive relationship you learn to settle for crumbs; crumbs of
love from your partner and crumbs of life for yourself. You will
learn how to feel safe asking for what you need from other people,
as well as how you can ask more of yourself and get it.
relationship you want. There is an
unspoken rule in relationships: you get what really believe you
deserve in your heart of hearts. (That’s how so many of us got
into abusive relationships in the first place.) Before you
can enjoy a good relationship, you need to be able to:
visualize that relationship
very clear about what you truly want.
You will discover how to know
exactly what you want so you can do this for yourself.
Yes, but will it work for me,
I've been through so much."
It has worked for everyone
who has stayed with the program and done the work.
Can I give you a CAST IRON
guarantee that it will work for you, personally? I
can't. But you do have my guarantee that in the unlikely
situation that you stay with the program, do the work, and it
doesn't work for you, I guarantee that I will refund your money in
I understand that after all the
uncertainty and problems you have been through, you don't want any
more risk in your life. So, I've done everything I possibly
can to put the only risk on me.
to sign up now.
“Is that all, Annie?
Or is there more?”
Actually, there is more. There will
also be the opportunity to ask your burning question and
get it answered. There will be a Question and Answer session
on every call, so you can voice your most pressing concerns.
“So, where’s the catch, Annie?
What is this going to cost me?”
I want to make sure these
teleclasses are as affordable as possible.I remember
how I felt all those years ago when I was starting out on my abuse
recovery journey, like you are now. I was terrified that I would
waste money I didn’t have and be no better off at the end of it.
I couldn’t begin to imagine that I would ever feel good again. I
felt unsupported, and under attack. There was nobody to say to me:
“The investment you make in your
recovery, will be the best investment you ever make.”
I could not know, then, I certainly
could not believe then, how fast I would begin to feel better,
once I discovered the very best recovery tools and techniques
that I now teach.
For me, and for so many women that I
work with, recovery means massive improvement in your quality
of life. It means that you:
Learn to love yourself
Become a changed, positive person
Feel in charge of your life
Become confident about building better
Feel good about yourself and other people
Rebuild your self-worth
See your life open up, often in directions you would never have
But don’t take my word for
it! Read what some other women have
said about my teleclasses:
you so much for the wonderful teleclass. Your material is
so important and it affects everyone. I recently went
through a divorce and this is really going to help me to
move forward.” (Joan S.)
Thank you for your investment
in helping women establish healthier lives. Your investment
has already brought about many amazing changes in my life!Sonaleena
Thanks for all your
help in the telegroup. It's helped me through this
transition time of separation and kept me focused on what
I want and need (after figuring out what it was!)
You hit the nail on the
head almost every time for what I'm feeling. Thank you so
much! (Kirsten B.)
“The teleclass was wonderful, and I
appreciate what you do very much.” (Karen H.)
teleclasses were riveting. I’d really like to listen to
them again.” (Valerie J.)
felt that my life had no direction. I now feel that I am in
charge of my own future. I am a changed woman.”
really depressed; lost lonely, as my situation couldn’t get
any worse. Now I feel more positive about my future.”
“ I was
feeling very, very bad. Now I feel better. I don’t feel
afraid. I’m different now..” (Rose
started working with you, I felt I had extremely low
self-esteem. I felt stuck in a rut and that nobody really
cared about me except the kids. I now feel positive about
my future “whatever” that may be. I am starting to move
into a much brighter and happier world and I’m really
starting to like myself…. I have found the way you have
managed to get the right stuff into my head amazing and
enlightening.’ (Kelly Darlin)
always been in my heart to send you an email to let you know
that the course has made me a brand new person I've always
wanted to be, "ME" Thandi. Thank you for helping me
rediscover myself. One of the things I have learned in the
course was to give credit where is earned, so there you have
it.” (Thandi M.)
this course a real godsend.”
start of this course, I didn’t know how I could manage
without my abusive partner. 6 weeks on, I have so much more
confidence. I now have a good job and faith in the future.
I don’t believe that would have happened without this
course.” (Susan S.)
or less given up hope. I felt I had been through too much
and was too old to start over. That’s changed completely.
I feel more positive about the future than I ever have in my
life before. “ (Angela H.)
was one of the best classes I ever heard. You single
handedly absolved me of my guilt that my relationship did
not work out; you said: "it takes two people". All I ever
heard before was, if you change your thoughts you can change
the other person and you said, no they have to be committed
to the relationship too.
So thank you so much for
that, you certainly made a difference in a lot of people's
lives tonight!” (Alexis W)
"What a great teleclass we
had last night!! You were fantastic! Thanks for all
your assistance and great information." (Cecilia
on my way today to see an lawyer to start my divorce
proceedings. Thank you for all your help. It is
really a big step.. it took me a long time to get there
. I started your classes in June and it has really
clarified a lot of the way my life is and how I want it
to be for myself and my children. My husband is
sick and I kept feeding into his sickness for many
years. It is true that after a while it becomes an
addiction even to the victim. I want to get clean and
stay off forever .
Thank you for your encouragement and strength. (Amanda
class has been really fantastic! Many thanks!
“Being in an abusive relationship left me fearful. Now
I’m feeling more clearly. I am my own individual. I’m
really grateful for you and having these classes.
They’ve really helped me.” (Marcia H.)
HERE to sign up now!
“OK, Annie, it sounds good.
But tell me:
Where? When? How?
In the comfort of your own home. Or,
if you prefer, the privacy of your own MP3 player. Because
you can listen to these classes, live - and participate in the Q &
A at the end of the calls. And you can download them later,
and listen to them as many times as you like, on your computer or
an MP3 players.
Here'd the deal: these classes are
delivered over the phone.
You simply have to call a US
phone number, or Bridge Line to hear the call, at normal rates.
On Monday evenings, at 6pm
ET, starting Monday February 9th and continuing until
There will be no class on
You will call in to the number you
will be given for the live call. You will have the
opportunity to ask your question during the call.
If you can't make the live call, you
will be able to download the recording after the call.
There will be written materials that
you will be able to access from a webpage.
You will be also have access to me via email.
Normally, I charge at least $250 per
hour for my time. My rate for Abuse Recovery
Coaching, which is already heavily discounted is $100 per
hour (but not for much longer).
For the next 10 days, until
midnight January 30th, I’m happy to offer this whole 10 week course to you for
That means you get 10 hours of the
best I have to offer, including the opportunity to ask me your
questions, for less than the normal cost of 1 hr’s coaching. At
just $12 per hour, it’s a complete steal. (Here in the UK
$12 covers the cost of a couple of magazines, and a caffelatte or
After that it will have to go up to
$140. So, if this is for you, seize the opportunity NOW.
You will get to benefit from everything I can teach
you, as well as sharing thoughts, feelings and wisdom with the
other women in the group.
You will discover that you’re not
alone. When you share with other women who have had similar
experiences, you will start to blast through the guilt and shame
and self-blame that has kept you stuck.
if I have to miss a call or two?”
No need to worry if
can’t listen to a call at the scheduled time. It will be recorded
and you will be able to listen to it at any time that works for
you. (Sure, you won’t be able to speak, but
you will still gain massive benefits from what you hear.)
The whole teleclass will be recorded and uploaded to my website,
so you will be able to listen to it at your convenience.
bonus, I’m throwing in a FREE copy of my
ebook “How To Say ‘No’ And Still Feel Good About Yourself”,
that normally sells for $37.
I’ll also throw
in a copy of “The Relationship Workbook” (value $27.00),
which is a great tool for changing the way you look at
I'll even offer you 1 Bonus Q & A
session, lasting 1 hour, at no extra charge.
That’s 11 hours
of my time, plus bonus materials for just $120.
there any other costs involved?
long distances charges by each caller's carrier apply.
Now you know the cost but
Do you have any idea of
All the positive changes you’ll make
As a result of taking this teleclass?
What is transformation worth to you?
What is it worth to you to regain
your confidence, reclaim your strength, feel positive about your
future, consign your abusive relationship to... exactly where it
deserves to be?
to sign up today.
You will be taken to a secure payment page, and from there to
a page with all the details you will need to access the calls.
you do nothing, nothing will change. But if you just start
applying what you will learn over the 10 weeks in this teleclass,
you too will be a changed woman. You will feel positive
about your future, good about yourself, and able to start holding
your own in relationships.
Looking forward to working with you to help you
create the future you want for yourself.
This is your golden
opportunity to give yourself the gifts of happiness and self-worth
too long now, you have put yourself last and settled for crumbs.
Seize this opportunity to know that you can go into the New Year
with hope - and the tools - to create a
much, much better future for yourself.
to sign up for your Accelerated Healing Journey.