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“It’s not about you!” Part 2

Last week I attended a weekend workshop, run by a man who is a world leader in his field. It turns out that he is of a similar age, similar ethnicity and has a similar background to my abusive ex-husband. He also exhibited similar behaviours and had the same kind of colouring and build.

What does that tell me?

What it tells me is simply that they both had the same kind of issues to deal with, and both preferred to visit their anger on others, rather than work through those issues.

Now, it probably won't surprise you to know that I did not warm excessively to this man. Still, his workshop delivered the value it offered. It also delivered a value I had not expected, which I believe is important enough to share with you.

He spent most of the workshop being relentlessly upbeat. On the last day he shared with us the story of the worst time of his life, a time when he spiralled into despair and suicidal thoughts.

He was in that state when he bumped into a friend who realized that the man could not see beyond all that was wrong in his life. The friend knew that he had only a tiny window of opportunity; either he would reach the man with his words, or the man might well take his own life.

This is approximately what he said:

"It's not about you! You have a mission. When you are a victim, you are just thinking about you. You are the only person that can live your mission, and if you don't do your mission, it won't get done. You are the only (and here he supplied the man's name) on earth."

I say that to you today.

I believe that you have a mission. You are the only person on earth that can live that mission. I don't know what that mission is, and maybe you don't yet. But you will. And maybe all that you have been through in your abusive relationship is tempering you for that mission, so that you become stronger and clearer and wiser and more able to fulfil it.

It's not about you, in the sense that it is not about continuing to focus on the sadness of what you have been through, and lost. It's not about the fear and the pain you have experienced. That has certainly happened, and it is right to honour that.

But turn your attention to your mission; whether that is giving your child(ren) a better chance than you had, or creating something that you hardly dare to entertain in your mind right now.

You have a mission that only you can fulfil. Let that thought sustain you, even as your abusive partner, or ex-partner continues to drone on - either outside or inside your head.

You will come through. Always.

Focus on that mission.

NOW 1-2-1 Telephone Coaching With Annie

“My counsellor has been telling me for months that I don’t listen to her. But when you say something, Annie, I hear it.” Mimi P.

You don’t need me to tell you how hard it is to get your head together when you’ve been in an abusive relationship. Like me, you've been there. You know. Like me, you know what time can and cannot do. You know, by now, that your demons, and his, are always there, waiting for you in the shadows.

Some days you feel motivated to keep going and other days you’d be happy to give up and settle for a single crumb of affection from him.

You can waste months and years going through the same old pattern of hope and despair; as if you hadn’t wasted enough time on him already.

That’s when telephone coaching can really help.

Imagine having someone at the other end of the phone who:

understands exactly what you are going through
is totally focused on your recovery
has successfully helped hundreds of women in your situation
believes totally in your ability to move on
knows from experience that, given the right support, it will be way easier than you think to heal your life
really cares about your present pain and future happiness

“That’s all well and good, but I can’t commit to any long, slow process, Annie.”

Coaching is quick and effective.

Coaching will stop you going round and round the same old loop and start thinking constructively so you can feel good about yourself and your life.

You know how you stopped believing in Father Christmas once you were told he didn’t exist?

Well, once you have been told who your abusive partner really is, you won’t be able to believe all the lies he told you any more. Which will leave you free to put the pieces of your life back together again.

So you can get your life back, only much, much better.

Because everybody has different learning styles, Annie offers 30 minute and 60 minute telephone consultations at reasonable rates.

Whether you have 1 consultation or several is entirely up to you, but expect coaching to make a big difference.

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“What will it cost me, Annie?”

"I could easily have charged $300 for an hour of my time. I usually do. But I wanted to make this service accessible to as many women as possible. So, for now, I'm charging the rock bottom price of just $50 for a 30 minute coaching consultation, or $100 for a full 60 minutes."

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How much is that when you focus on the weeks and months by which it will shorten your learning curve get rid of the pain and the obsession about an abusive partner and jump start your enjoyment of life?

If you don't take action now, your life won't change. But if you do, just 2 or 3 months from now, you can be that woman saying: "It's amazing. I've come so far and I feel so much better."

Your recovery can be fast, easy and joyful.

Is that something that you want for yourself?

Because if it is, I'm really looking forward to working with you.

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When I finally ended my marriage, the question that obsessed me was: “How do I heal from this?” After 20+ years in an abusive marriage, I'd had it with struggling with despair, sorrow, anger and pain. I wanted a life worth living.

I wanted to be emotionally whole and healthy. But I didn’t know where to start. So I did everything I could. I tried psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, group counselling. I read about abuse and talked about abuse. It all helped and I’m grateful to everyone and everything that helped move me along.

The knowledge I acquired was valuable, no doubt about it. But the one thing that enabled me to make the shift out of that dark world of fear and desperation was learning to believe in me again. The more I started to value and respect myself, the easier it became to move on.

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