If confidence is your problem, the great news is that there is a quick, easy solution. Now you CAN banish self-doubt and have complete trust in your own abilities.
Have you ever thought:
"The one thing holding me back
is my lack of confidence?"
Is your confidence only surface deep?
You know how some people look confident and successful, but they feel like they ’re playing a role a lot of the time?
So they worry the mask will drop and expose the self-doubt behind the 'confident' exterior.
Perhaps this is you?
Do you spend precious time and energy covering up your true feelings?
Are you anxious about the negative opinion other people might have of you?
Do you feel compelled to shine in every situation?
Do you set yourself such high standards that you struggle to live up to them?
In the past have you
...set yourself up for success, or failure?
You see, you could be the only thing standing in the way of your own ultimate success.
If your head is filled with the negative judgements you worry other people will make, then you could be setting yourself up for failure.
Who are these 'other people'? And why does their opinion matter so much?
Worrying about what they'll think leaves you feeling blocked, drained and defensive.
You can’t trust yourself to be spontaneous, because you’re always second guessing how you’ll be judged’. It stops you connecting with other people half as well as you could.
If you focus on your worry about 'getting it wrong', you make it that much harder for yourself to ever get it really right. Are you ready to?
Replace negative self-talk with quiet, solid confidence
What I do is teach people how they can replace negative self-talk with a confident, quiet focus on the other person.
The benefit of which is that your mind becomes still enough to notice the positive message that you're getting from other people and your belief in yourself soars. While your stress levels drop, because you know you’re good enough.
You think positive. You know you can express your viewpoint calmly and successfully, whatever the situation. You discover boundless self-assurance. You can even start to enjoy the challenges you face, because you know you have the resources to meet them.
Look forward to events you once dreaded
Your energy levels will rocket. Work and social situations that were once anxiety-provoking, will become enjoyable. You'll start looking forward to occasions you previously dreaded. So your life will filled with more fun and more opportunities than you would have thought possible.
You won't need to convince anyone ever again. Least of all yourself. Because your inner confidence will shine through. Leaving you free to be yourself and get the best out of every situation.
No need to hesitate, anticipate, or prevaricate, just fire off an email now to Annie
to arrange a FREE, introductory consultation.
Would you like to know more?
"Confidence is easy, once you have the secret. Don't be like most people who don't find it, because they're looking in the wrong place."
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